so, i'm glad you have decided to visit my blogsite for whatever reason:) i am an author, conference speaker, and website designer. my purpose is to encourage widows -- of which i was one for six and a half years. and then one day without warning, i met a man who turned out to be the man of my dreams. so life can have happy endings and thus, i have named my blog "days go by." because we can't stop time from marching on. sometimes it runs and sometimes it doesn't seem to want to move at all but i am on the other side of some things and if i can help you get from there to here i will.